Okay so its yet another Friday an we're back with a new post.
Currently there are a lot of things happening around us that continue to influence our thought process, because of which this blog post is something that many could find dragging, but believe us, take time to read it and we're sure a good number of you can connect to it.
The title gives you a very good insight as to what we're going to write about, so no cookies for guessing that.
Lets get to the point, You've been a complete sweetheart right from the beginning, helping everybody out, being your politest self, doing things you know others are going to like, without cribbing about people not appreciating your efforts. Why ? Because these aren't really efforts, you have this quality of pleasing everyone. You receive immense amount of happiness out of it.
You're very well comfortable with it selflessly doing things, but there comes a point when people start taking things for granted, that somewhat makes you upset, but you decide to ignore it because your nature doesn't let you come out of this "Goody-Goody" mode.
Now it's been a very long time, and it starts to get worse, and you are frustrated as hell, but you still do nothing about it.
Like seriously at this point of time everybody else can be complete bitches but you cannot rather will not do anything about it, because people expect you not to, and you have this insane desire to live up to EVERYBODY'S expectations.
This habit of yours, you're going to regret it very soon. This needs to go away. It's time you understand who to care for.
People who are obsessed with being genuinely sweet to anybody and everybody need to understand that this is going to fetch them more pain than good. It's a mean world out there mate, you'll meet people who'll exploit you and walk away. People are going to be sweet to you to get your work done. Do not mistake all that sweet talk with friendship vows.
We do not say everybody you come across is going to take advantage and leave you but, 8 out of 10 people are going to turn out as emotional threats.
Learn to judge the difference between people who mingle with you because of ulterior motives and people who actually appreciate you and care for you.
This thing that you have in yourself, your habit, it's divine.
But learn to direct it in a way that doesn't leave you feeling like trash.
Being somebody who's been through this phase, our advice to you is to realize that it's great to be polite to people but at some point you have to decide who all are worth your politeness.
This in no way means you start being mean to others, but channelize your sweetness towards those who deserve it. ;)
With that, this is the soul sisters signing off! :)
Keep helping, be sweet, but don't let others treat you like shit.
New posts, after we get over with Exams. ._. (Fridays obviously.)
Keep reading, Keep smiling.! :)
Currently there are a lot of things happening around us that continue to influence our thought process, because of which this blog post is something that many could find dragging, but believe us, take time to read it and we're sure a good number of you can connect to it.
The title gives you a very good insight as to what we're going to write about, so no cookies for guessing that.
Lets get to the point, You've been a complete sweetheart right from the beginning, helping everybody out, being your politest self, doing things you know others are going to like, without cribbing about people not appreciating your efforts. Why ? Because these aren't really efforts, you have this quality of pleasing everyone. You receive immense amount of happiness out of it.
You're very well comfortable with it selflessly doing things, but there comes a point when people start taking things for granted, that somewhat makes you upset, but you decide to ignore it because your nature doesn't let you come out of this "Goody-Goody" mode.
Now it's been a very long time, and it starts to get worse, and you are frustrated as hell, but you still do nothing about it.
Like seriously at this point of time everybody else can be complete bitches but you cannot rather will not do anything about it, because people expect you not to, and you have this insane desire to live up to EVERYBODY'S expectations.
This habit of yours, you're going to regret it very soon. This needs to go away. It's time you understand who to care for.
People who are obsessed with being genuinely sweet to anybody and everybody need to understand that this is going to fetch them more pain than good. It's a mean world out there mate, you'll meet people who'll exploit you and walk away. People are going to be sweet to you to get your work done. Do not mistake all that sweet talk with friendship vows.
We do not say everybody you come across is going to take advantage and leave you but, 8 out of 10 people are going to turn out as emotional threats.
Learn to judge the difference between people who mingle with you because of ulterior motives and people who actually appreciate you and care for you.
This thing that you have in yourself, your habit, it's divine.
But learn to direct it in a way that doesn't leave you feeling like trash.
Being somebody who's been through this phase, our advice to you is to realize that it's great to be polite to people but at some point you have to decide who all are worth your politeness.
This in no way means you start being mean to others, but channelize your sweetness towards those who deserve it. ;)
With that, this is the soul sisters signing off! :)
Keep helping, be sweet, but don't let others treat you like shit.
New posts, after we get over with Exams. ._. (Fridays obviously.)
Keep reading, Keep smiling.! :)
NICE........!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteI was really able to connect it to the happenings in my life.....
Told Ya! ;) :)
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