Learn The Difference Between Losing Your Heart & Losing YOURSELF !

“Never chase anyone, a person who appreciates you will always walk beside you."

We've come across so many people who completely change themselves to fit in the criteria for their girlfriends/boyfriends. They don’t leave a single figment of their older self after they get into a relationship.

 Not doing a few things that your partner dislikes & completely discarding your old habits are two different stories altogether. Losing your self respect is not a way to show your love for your partner.

 For example we see guys carrying their girlfriends’ hand bags. Look if she’s brought it, she probably can carry it herself too. You are her boyfriend, not her coolie for heaven’s sake!
This is where your male ego should actually be hurt, instead of all the wrong situations which require your sensitivity.
My guy would/should never honor such stupid wishes, and I know for a fact, that I will not even expect him to do so.
And for girls who dress according to their boyfriend’s wishes or isolate themselves from their friend circle because the guy doesn't approve of the company, are you serious? He is your boyfriend not your daddy. Why should you stop wearing things you like or start wearing things you dislike?

The society was enough to raise eyebrows at your attire; your boyfriend doesn't have to be one of them too. And let’s just not look at one side of the story, the same goes for girls who aren't comfortable in bold clothes but start wearing them because their boyfriends insist upon it.

And yes, Friends, how on earth can you forget your friends who've hung around no matter how messed up you were, for a short lived relationship. As a matter of fact, even if you think you've found your soul mate, that’s absolutely no justification for leaving your friends.

And it’s not only girls, it applies equally to guys. It is criminal to wash out all the time you spent with your guy friends just because your girlfriend thinks they are childish and immature. She may not tag along if she has a problem with them, but don’t let her hijack the time you spend chilling with your buddies.

The whole idea of a relationship is that being with the other person makes you feel happy and complete. It’s gone way too wrong if the whole time just one of the two is doing all they can to please the other person.

Someone should not get into a relationship with you, with a motive to turn your personality upside down. The one who accepts & loves you for all your imperfections and habits, is the one who truly deserves you.

We understand that everybody has a faint image of what and how his/her partner should be like and there are some favorable traits and things which are a big NO, but imposing them on your current partner is not the way to go about it.

You should be with somebody who makes you fall in love with yourself rather than somebody who you are constantly trying to impress.

If you can relate to any of the above things and you’re happy about it, absolutely fine.
But if it makes you unhappy for the slightest, then it’s time to pack your bags and run out of this relationship.

So our advice is to go out, chill with your friends (don’t completely forget your BF/GF), spend some alone time and discover yourself all over again!

This is the soul sisters (Love Gurus:P) signing off.

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